The first thing I do every morning is unlock my phone. There’s an app to count my steps, track my sleep, remind me to drink water, even tell me when I’m stressed. But there is no app that warns a girl before she’s told to lower her voice. No app that stops a boy from being taught that dominance is strength. No app that alerts us when patriarchy quietly decides whose dreams matter. And that’s because patriarchy isn’t a glitch. It ’s the operating system we never consented to